My Mum has 3 Golden Rules. I’m sure she’d never be able to teach them to you – but they are things I’ve noticed over the years that apply as well to business as they do to mothering.
1. Never show up to a party empty handed.
It’s polite, thoughtful and just good form to take a bottle of wine, flowers or a gift of some sort.
Similarly in business, if someone has given you the gift of their time to help you out in business – what can you give them to say thanks?
2. Happiness is more important than financial reward.
My Mum never expressed too much concern when I wanted to leave medicine and become an actress. She continues to support me no matter what I want to do, as long as I’m happy.
I think we should all “mother” ourselves in this way in business. Take your own happiness “temperature”. Are you still happy doing what you’re doing? If not, perhaps you should nurture and support yourself and let yourself do something you enjoy for a while. (Who knows it might make you more money like mine did!)
3. Relationships first.
No matter what happens, or what someone does or doesn’t do – the most important thing is to maintain the relationship. If there is love and trust in the relationship people will be empowered to make the right choices. There’s no room for judgment.
I notice this holds true with dealing with staff. People don’t come to work to do a bad job. If you empower people, and love them enough, they are more likely to achieve than if you berate them.
As I write this I think I could write a million things I learned from my Mum that impact my business, but 3 will do for today. What did you learn from your Mum? Was is it empowering? If not, turn it around – there’s some great life lessons in there if you look.